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3 Conversations You Should Have Before You Go Condom-Free

Many monogamous relationships grow from love. Many other, less lame monogamous relationships grow from a desire to stop using condoms. The DTR (define the relationship) conversation is a great time to talk about having unprotected sex, but the reverse is also true: A conversation about unprotected sex often leads to a conversation about Us. PhysicalContinue Reading “3 Conversations You Should Have Before You Go Condom-Free”

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Being “a Naked Lady on the Internet” Is Basically a 9-to-5

Patreon, a crowdfunding platform, used to be a relatively safe space for cam girls. Historically Patreon hasn’t antagonized NSFW content, giving erotic models a way to raise money from “patrons,” fans who pay creators either monthly or per post. Sydni Deveraux, also known as The Golden Glamazon, is one such erotic model. Deveraux is aContinue Reading “Being “a Naked Lady on the Internet” Is Basically a 9-to-5”

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How to Buy Condoms That Don’t Feel Like Condoms

At their worst, condoms don’t fit, smell weird, dehydrate both sets of genitals, cause friction, and make a once glorious boner look embarrassed, peering up at you from its latex prison. But at their best, condoms can actually make sex better. I remember with astonishing clarity the day my sex-ed teacher put a condom onContinue Reading “How to Buy Condoms That Don’t Feel Like Condoms”

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How to Deal With Your Sexy Single Friends Once You’re In a Relationship

You just started dating someone—not talking to someone, not seeing someone, not some other euphemism young people have decided we need to untangle the complicated terrain of getting naked + having feelings for a particular someone—you two are dating. They’ve got a toothbrush at your place and it’s not just a the-dentist-gave-me-a-toothbrush toothbrush. It’s anContinue Reading “How to Deal With Your Sexy Single Friends Once You’re In a Relationship”

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There’s Probably a Better “Female James Bond” Movie Than ‘Atomic Blonde’

Look, there’s nothing wrong with Atomic Blonde, per se, when you consider it on its own merits. Sure, its story—about a secret agent, Lorraine Broughton, who gets caught in the middle of a complicated black-ops heist in 1989 East Berlin and has to take down some bad Germans when it quickly begins to unravel aroundContinue Reading “There’s Probably a Better “Female James Bond” Movie Than ‘Atomic Blonde’”